What Makes a Woman a LADY?

MANNERS, MANNERS, MANNERS.

I came across this great article on manners from the blog: graceandpoise.wordpress.com. I think it's great and a wonderful reminder that the little things really do matter.

Here's a list of some of the things you can do to freshen up your ladylike status.

• Saying “please” and “thank you”.
• Never intentionally embarrassing another
• Never talking only about oneself
• Not gossiping
• Not prying
• Not asking personal questions
• Not staring
• Not pointing at someone
• Not talking loudly
• Not asking intrusive personal questions
• Chew with your mouth closed
• Cross your legs if you are wearing a dress
• Wipe your feet at the door and take your shoes off in a persons home

• Offer food or drinks to guests
• Open doors for people behind you
• Please, don’t skip in line
• Apologize to someone if you bump into them
• Watch your language in front of children
• Wait to eat until everyone at the table is seated and ready to eat
• Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze
• Always wash your hands after using the restroom
• Dress accordingly for events
• No excessive PDA
• Ladies first
• Make eye contact when talking to a person
• Say excuse me when you wish to speak to someone who is engaging in conversation
• Ask to borrow people’s personal belongings
• Introduce yourself to people when you meet them
• Don’t put your elbows on the dinner table
• Don’t burp at the dinner table
• Don’t comment on people’s weight or age (unless it’s positive)
• Respect your elders
• Don’t hit other people
• Don’t lie or steal
• Say sorry when you do something that hurts someone else
• Mind your own business
• Be a good listener. Don’t interrupt.
• Do not discuss sex, religion, or politics when you first meet someone. Be courteous when you do.
• Anticipate the needs of others.
• Don’t have your radio or TV so loud it bothers others.
• Use your turn signal.

• In the above we have highlighted quite a few of the common every-day acts and gestures. But since we focus on the making of a woman in this series we feel it appropriate to highlight some of the deeds that are particularly noticed and appreciated when displayed by a lady.
• When you mention your enemies speak about them with respect – not matter what they did – they are human and still deserve respect (Yes, I do mean you’re ex too!)

• Dress appropriately for the occasion. Yes, this is a tricky one but do you’re best. A lady never deliberately sticks out of the crowd.
• Cut the whining and complaining. Seriously, who like a girl that constantly whines and nothing is ever perfect for her? Take what you’ve been given with grace and use it to the best of your ability – however meager it may be.
• Honesty. One of the greatest attributes bestowed upon mankind. Use it with tact and pride.
• Project yourself – real, human, feminine, (and slightly imperfect!) with spirit and vitality. Don’t try and be a copycat. You’re unique – embrace it.
• Be charming. Strive to be lovely, use small-talk and your smile.
• Cut out the crudeness. Enough said.
• Know how to handle yourself and your emotions. Know what makes you upset, angry, depressed, moody. Learn how to curb the unloveliness. Yes, this takes time and effort maybe a bit of actually trying and failing but remember that old saying, “practice makes perfect?”.
• Be punctual. If you’re late – apologize beforehand.

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